Thursday, May 28, 2009

Hey all! It's Been Awhile!

So I realized that, once again, I've been a terrible blogger, and haven't posted anything since we were going to Seoul to meet Leslie for her three-week visit. Very long story short, we had an AWESOME time, and we were sad to see Leslie go, but we were reminded of something we had all but forgotten: we're now officially past the halfway point in our contract! When we left for Korea, Leslie was just beginning to plan her visit, and we hadn't even realized at the time that that visit would be happening around the six-month point of our adventure!

So I guess that makes this post our six-month update. I'll try not to disappoint.

We've learned quite a bit in the last six months about who we are and what we want out of life. The wonderful adventure that is teaching English in Korea is really awesome, and even after six months, we still recommend it wholeheartedly to anyone who isn't sure what to do after graduating from university, or who is just looking to travel or have an adventure before settling in to 'real life'. It's a tremendous opportunity to experience a different culture, learn a new language, and even earn a little extra money while you're at it.

That said, one of the things that Shan and I have learned while we've been here is that having a real life and globetrotting don't go all that well together. Since we've been here, we've had a great opportunity to get involved at a church here, but our involvement means that we don't often get to do the classic foreigner things like travelling all over Asia on the weekends. Now, this is definitely not a bad thing - far from it, in fact. It's simply what our experience has been, and we've realized as a result of that experience that as much as we love to travel, we would prefer to do it in more of a classic vacation style than expecting to do it and still have to be back for work on Monday.

The other thing we've learned is that, when 'real life' finally beckons, it's hard to ignore. For a few years now, I've had an idea in my head of what I think 'real life' holds for me, and being here, working at a job and pursuing my passion on the side, definitely has its difficult moments. Combine that with this conversation every time we meet new people:

-oh, you're married?
-yup
-do you have any children?
-not yet
-why not?
-because we're in Korea

Such conversations tend to be a rather constant reminder that we're only here for a season, and settling down to start a family is definitely part of that whole 'real life' thing, too.

By this point, you've probably figured out where I'm going with all this: as much as we love it here in Korea, we've decided that it's time to make the jump into 'real life' and come home after only one year in Korea, rather than the two we had originally planned. We've been mulling this over since our original jobs were unexpectedly terminated, and we were moved across the city to a new job and a new (albeit AWESOME) apartment. The change, while definitely not a bad one, served as a reminder to us that this adventure is not a permanent one, and that God's got plans for us when we get back to 'real life'.

Now, of course comes the point when when we realize that we have to start planning for our return home - jobs, housing, etc. and that in and of itself seems a little bit of a daunting task. The extent of such planning up to this point is making the decision that we'll go wherever we can find a church that will take me on (most preferably in a musical capacity), but that we'd prefer to stay in the Maritimes. A Master's degree is on the horizon as well, but probably not full time, and not before the 2010/11 school year.

So that's basically what's been happening with us over the last while. Shan will have a more in-depth report on our visit from Leslie coming soon.

1 comment:

thatguygriff said...

I am glad to hear that you have been learning so much while you are in Korea. To be honest though I cannot say that I am sad that you will be returning to this end of the world. I look forward to seeing you two again!